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<blockquote data-quote="Nancy" data-source="post: 448337" data-attributes="member: 59"><p>Yep Kathy I think Janet's right. That and the fact that you and I have so much in common with our difficult child's. I can't tell you what to do, you have to feel it in your gut. Our difficult child was several years younger and that made a difference. It's a very difficult decision because she has this job hanging over her head (or is that just another lie?). The job is a chance for her to move out and be away from you, but if she is on such a downward spiral how long will that last. But I also don't think she is at all interested in getting help for her problems, where our difficult child was ready.</p><p></p><p> I can easily see myself saying to throw her butt out of th ehouse, report the stolen checks and let her it bottom. It's what we did, yet I'm not sure what we would have done in the face of a felony. And Janet is right about bringing her bottom up, that's also what we did. We wouldn;t let difficult child back into the house when she was drinking and smoking pot 24/7 and lost her job. Hard as it was we told her to find a place for treatment and we woudl support that but she couldn't come back home. I am convinced that is the only reason she is where she is art now, because she had no place else to go and hated where she was at.</p><p></p><p>Whatever you decide we are here for you and will support you.</p><p></p><p>Nancy</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Nancy, post: 448337, member: 59"] Yep Kathy I think Janet's right. That and the fact that you and I have so much in common with our difficult child's. I can't tell you what to do, you have to feel it in your gut. Our difficult child was several years younger and that made a difference. It's a very difficult decision because she has this job hanging over her head (or is that just another lie?). The job is a chance for her to move out and be away from you, but if she is on such a downward spiral how long will that last. But I also don't think she is at all interested in getting help for her problems, where our difficult child was ready. I can easily see myself saying to throw her butt out of th ehouse, report the stolen checks and let her it bottom. It's what we did, yet I'm not sure what we would have done in the face of a felony. And Janet is right about bringing her bottom up, that's also what we did. We wouldn;t let difficult child back into the house when she was drinking and smoking pot 24/7 and lost her job. Hard as it was we told her to find a place for treatment and we woudl support that but she couldn't come back home. I am convinced that is the only reason she is where she is art now, because she had no place else to go and hated where she was at. Whatever you decide we are here for you and will support you. Nancy [/QUOTE]
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