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<blockquote data-quote="2tired" data-source="post: 187801" data-attributes="member: 491"><p>Thank you for the links - I will certainly look into them. In this state when a child is a minor, they don't do much to them. As stated, I am not expecting too much as far as consequence, but I did file "Theft by Taking", but she will lie about it... To be perfectly honest, I've called the police so many times about her - I see their attitudes when they come to my house. Unfortunately for me - </p><p>The county police had her for criminal tresspassing - and the officer let her go. She told him that I put her out, and even though I had filed a runaway - the paperwork two days before, it was awaiting the judges signature - he let her GO! I have since filed a complaint with Internal Affairs on that officer - especially after I asked him why didn't he use his discretion especially since school was in, and hold her until I could be reached - he told me that was above his pay grade.</p><p></p><p>Her original diagnosis at 8 years old was ODD. Once she went into the DFACS system - all of that changed to abuse, neglect etc., they never looked at her at the time existing records - it was her horrible mother - (of course). Eventually, it was depression -(because of her horrible mother). It took years of fighting the system to get her off certain medications, and into a better facility - which changed things drastically - she had a really good therapist after about 5 years who actually listened to ME. </p><p></p><p>I have truly been through the ringer with this girl. I never fully gave up because something just wasn't right with her - every diagnosis I suggested the criteria (according to them) couldn't be because of her age - but she was put on medication that was for adults. So that was a fight to get her off the medications that caused her considerable weight gain. </p><p></p><p>She did well in school if she attended class/school. She had a great team of people behind her and my family- but it took a lot of work/advocating, and letter writing to the powers that be. She is so clever, she can fool most people..... Thanks for the links, the eyes, (ears), and the shoulders to cry on so to speak!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="2tired, post: 187801, member: 491"] Thank you for the links - I will certainly look into them. In this state when a child is a minor, they don't do much to them. As stated, I am not expecting too much as far as consequence, but I did file "Theft by Taking", but she will lie about it... To be perfectly honest, I've called the police so many times about her - I see their attitudes when they come to my house. Unfortunately for me - The county police had her for criminal tresspassing - and the officer let her go. She told him that I put her out, and even though I had filed a runaway - the paperwork two days before, it was awaiting the judges signature - he let her GO! I have since filed a complaint with Internal Affairs on that officer - especially after I asked him why didn't he use his discretion especially since school was in, and hold her until I could be reached - he told me that was above his pay grade. Her original diagnosis at 8 years old was ODD. Once she went into the DFACS system - all of that changed to abuse, neglect etc., they never looked at her at the time existing records - it was her horrible mother - (of course). Eventually, it was depression -(because of her horrible mother). It took years of fighting the system to get her off certain medications, and into a better facility - which changed things drastically - she had a really good therapist after about 5 years who actually listened to ME. I have truly been through the ringer with this girl. I never fully gave up because something just wasn't right with her - every diagnosis I suggested the criteria (according to them) couldn't be because of her age - but she was put on medication that was for adults. So that was a fight to get her off the medications that caused her considerable weight gain. She did well in school if she attended class/school. She had a great team of people behind her and my family- but it took a lot of work/advocating, and letter writing to the powers that be. She is so clever, she can fool most people..... Thanks for the links, the eyes, (ears), and the shoulders to cry on so to speak! [/QUOTE]
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