Hey! I didn't want to make you cry! Oh, 
Don't do that!
Listen, you're right that you need to watch out for yourself. You have to be able to function before you can prove that you are functional - right?!!
If you're not able to keep physical contact, make sure you send cards and write letters.
If I had a dime for everytime I yelled at all of them for what only 1 did, I'd be rich!
You've had a really rough time of it. Take a breather, unwind, pull up a chair and buzz through the different stuff on here. Personally, I think your daughter has got to be one of the most "misdiagnosed" kids I've heard of in a really long time! But there is a point that she needs to be responsible for her own actions. I'd buzz around in the Teens and Substance Abuse forum - they can help you learn to detach (doesn't mean you don't love them, just that you refuse to be a party to their self-destruction).
Keep in mind: we're here!
Except now I have to take the demons to Chuck E. Cheese - the coupons for freebies are about to expire! 
Later!
Beth
