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<blockquote data-quote="Heather52" data-source="post: 691097" data-attributes="member: 20312"><p>I hung on to every word you said. I'm suffering from battle fatigue and getting no where. I know she is heavily influenced by her spouse who has nothing to do with his mother and thinks of her as dead. She's also influenced by a friend who by choice has a relationship with father but non e with mother. Our daughter has two faces one for her friends, coworkers but another face for her family. She gas one brother who lives in another country who has made it clear , he wants to stay out of it. I understand it but by the same token secretly I feel betrayed by it. We are in so much pain that desperation sets in. All logic and the the correct way to handle this situation flies out the window. As much as I want to handle this with dignity and the need to rise above it, the urge to lash out at those who influenced her is overpowering, we were in a good place finally, able to enjoy each other, enjoy friends , entertain and gardening together and long drives in the country until I reached out again. She had Misinterpreted a comment via text that I wanted to reconcile and woukd accept her terms which would be ignore her father but when I corrected that she once again got nasty. I can't and won't go back to her on her terms. In addition I know with certainty that if we reconciled , I will be here again within a year. I will not survive a repeat. I have run out of options.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Heather52, post: 691097, member: 20312"] I hung on to every word you said. I'm suffering from battle fatigue and getting no where. I know she is heavily influenced by her spouse who has nothing to do with his mother and thinks of her as dead. She's also influenced by a friend who by choice has a relationship with father but non e with mother. Our daughter has two faces one for her friends, coworkers but another face for her family. She gas one brother who lives in another country who has made it clear , he wants to stay out of it. I understand it but by the same token secretly I feel betrayed by it. We are in so much pain that desperation sets in. All logic and the the correct way to handle this situation flies out the window. As much as I want to handle this with dignity and the need to rise above it, the urge to lash out at those who influenced her is overpowering, we were in a good place finally, able to enjoy each other, enjoy friends , entertain and gardening together and long drives in the country until I reached out again. She had Misinterpreted a comment via text that I wanted to reconcile and woukd accept her terms which would be ignore her father but when I corrected that she once again got nasty. I can't and won't go back to her on her terms. In addition I know with certainty that if we reconciled , I will be here again within a year. I will not survive a repeat. I have run out of options. [/QUOTE]
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