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<blockquote data-quote="hearts and roses" data-source="post: 136549" data-attributes="member: 2211"><p><span style="font-size: 12px">He sounds incredibly depressed. I mean, clinically not just a simple case of eposodic depression. </span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-size: 12px">When my H 'checks out' of our family life in the way you're describing, it's depression settling in. My H has it now. I went to the DR, I am taking my medications, I am forcing myself to be involved and do the normal things I do, make plans and interact with others. My H has not. </span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-size: 12px">H works, comes home, eats, showers, puts on the same darned pair of blue sweats and either reads or watches tv for about 35 minutes and then falls asleep. If I wake him to come to bed, he asks for a blanket and sleeps in his sweats till about 2 AM. </span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-size: 12px">I work full time during the week and lately, I've been working longer days - it's been a crunch. Anyway, on the weekends I try to get all my errands and chores done quickly so I can have Sunday mostly free except for dinner. </span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-size: 12px">Well, this weekend things just got fouled up and I spent a majority of my weekend doing chores and errands. At the end of Sunday night, as I lay down to sleep (FINALLY), it occurred to me that my H did NOTHING all weekend for the house/home. NOTHING. All week, all he did was take the garbage out twice to the outside can and once to the curb. I did all the washing/drying/folding/putting away of the laundry, all the dishes, all the cooking, all food shopping, and all cleaning of the house, bathed the dogs, plus all my banking and errand running. </span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-size: 12px">H asked me late Sunday afternoon what I was making for dinner and then said, "A pie would be nice" in his sugary sickeningly sweet voice. I turned on him and asked, "What did you do this weekend?" He gave me that blank stare that makes me want to smash his face. I did not make dinner, or a pie.</span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><strong>Anyway, I just wanted to throw out the question of possible depression and send a hug - I totally know how you feel. </strong>My H is depressed - he always is from February until April - but he refuses to see anyone or do anything about it. Instead he usually delves into his outside work and makes us all miserable. I can't sleep at night from all his hopping and bopping around. </span></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="hearts and roses, post: 136549, member: 2211"] [SIZE=3]He sounds incredibly depressed. I mean, clinically not just a simple case of eposodic depression. [/SIZE] [SIZE=3]When my H 'checks out' of our family life in the way you're describing, it's depression settling in. My H has it now. I went to the DR, I am taking my medications, I am forcing myself to be involved and do the normal things I do, make plans and interact with others. My H has not. [/SIZE] [SIZE=3]H works, comes home, eats, showers, puts on the same darned pair of blue sweats and either reads or watches tv for about 35 minutes and then falls asleep. If I wake him to come to bed, he asks for a blanket and sleeps in his sweats till about 2 AM. [/SIZE] [SIZE=3]I work full time during the week and lately, I've been working longer days - it's been a crunch. Anyway, on the weekends I try to get all my errands and chores done quickly so I can have Sunday mostly free except for dinner. [/SIZE] [SIZE=3]Well, this weekend things just got fouled up and I spent a majority of my weekend doing chores and errands. At the end of Sunday night, as I lay down to sleep (FINALLY), it occurred to me that my H did NOTHING all weekend for the house/home. NOTHING. All week, all he did was take the garbage out twice to the outside can and once to the curb. I did all the washing/drying/folding/putting away of the laundry, all the dishes, all the cooking, all food shopping, and all cleaning of the house, bathed the dogs, plus all my banking and errand running. [/SIZE] [SIZE=3]H asked me late Sunday afternoon what I was making for dinner and then said, "A pie would be nice" in his sugary sickeningly sweet voice. I turned on him and asked, "What did you do this weekend?" He gave me that blank stare that makes me want to smash his face. I did not make dinner, or a pie.[/SIZE] [SIZE=3][B]Anyway, I just wanted to throw out the question of possible depression and send a hug - I totally know how you feel. [/B]My H is depressed - he always is from February until April - but he refuses to see anyone or do anything about it. Instead he usually delves into his outside work and makes us all miserable. I can't sleep at night from all his hopping and bopping around. [/SIZE] [/QUOTE]
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