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<blockquote data-quote="ski10" data-source="post: 425013" data-attributes="member: 11845"><p>Hi Jena,</p><p> </p><p>Your therapist has some wise words, now if we could only put them in to action, lol</p><p> </p><p>I totally understand how you're feeling about Sunday and the b'day gift, knowing your child is going to blow up, the anxiety just knowing it's going to happen, the sensible side of me would say, right..I'm doing the right thing, be strong, so difficult to do but I'm getting to the point of thinking if I were to give in it's no help, it's hell either way! might as well be strong and hope it works....not sure if that makes any sense, I'm rambling! but I know how you feel.</p><p> </p><p>I realize I have been enabling my daughter too, depends on the day but...she will turn everything around to make it seem I'm in the wrong, gets so rude and yes downright nasty sometimes, then I start questioning myself, all the time I'm thinking...."I'm the mom, yet I feel like the kid!!" honestly sometimes I'm pleased when she goes out the door, peace! Love her to death but....AGHHH!</p><p> </p><p>and, this is all over her boyfriend!</p><p> </p><p>I am very new here and thank god I found this site, I'm learning threre are so many parents who are having so many sleepness nights, anxiety through the roof, crying, going over and over in their heads what to do and feeling 1/2 crazy...to name a few. My head hurts and my brain feels as though it's splitting in two, if that's even possible.</p><p>If you figure out how to get a good nights sleep please let me know?!!!! take care..</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="ski10, post: 425013, member: 11845"] Hi Jena, Your therapist has some wise words, now if we could only put them in to action, lol I totally understand how you're feeling about Sunday and the b'day gift, knowing your child is going to blow up, the anxiety just knowing it's going to happen, the sensible side of me would say, right..I'm doing the right thing, be strong, so difficult to do but I'm getting to the point of thinking if I were to give in it's no help, it's hell either way! might as well be strong and hope it works....not sure if that makes any sense, I'm rambling! but I know how you feel. I realize I have been enabling my daughter too, depends on the day but...she will turn everything around to make it seem I'm in the wrong, gets so rude and yes downright nasty sometimes, then I start questioning myself, all the time I'm thinking...."I'm the mom, yet I feel like the kid!!" honestly sometimes I'm pleased when she goes out the door, peace! Love her to death but....AGHHH! and, this is all over her boyfriend! I am very new here and thank god I found this site, I'm learning threre are so many parents who are having so many sleepness nights, anxiety through the roof, crying, going over and over in their heads what to do and feeling 1/2 crazy...to name a few. My head hurts and my brain feels as though it's splitting in two, if that's even possible. If you figure out how to get a good nights sleep please let me know?!!!! take care.. [/QUOTE]
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