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if the police have become involved may I ask if child protective services were called on you. I can testify it's not a bad thing, because it can open the door to many free services for your son and I think it definatley sounds like you could use some support services. A behavioral assistant to start. My difficult child II (11) also comes and goes all over the place and has also gotten into altercations. There is no way to stop him other then sitting on him (literally) Please keep sharing here and also look into what services your county provides for children's behavioral issues