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<blockquote data-quote="daywithkitten" data-source="post: 676232" data-attributes="member: 19924"><p>Thank you all for your reponses. Our daughter has already lost custody her 3 children. The 12 year old is in my husband's custody and has been for years. The second child was taken from her by the boyfriends aunt years ago. The 3rd child just born in Nov 2015, cps gave custody to the father of the child. And yes she lost all her children due to drug use.</p><p></p><p>I always knew she was on drugs, but she either lived with some boyfriend or she concealed it very well. Or, she just wasn't high when she was over visiting. </p><p></p><p>Nope, she doesn't pay the bills. SHE DOESN'T WORK and has told me she dosent WANT to work. I know, I know. </p><p></p><p>You know, the grown kids come in and say it's just til we get back on our feet. Hah! Translated, I need a place to stay so the money I do get my hands on can pay for my addiction. While I sleep all day and you get my kid to school, and feed her and help her with homework, yall know the routine. Sometimes, it was just for a short while, but she just keeps coming back like a bad penny. This time she came back 4 months pregnant. Yeah, I know, how dare us throw her out into the street.</p><p>OMG, I just can't believe all this is happening to us. Husband and I have a great relationship except for this one thorn. Same page ? Now I don't even know. He has repeatedly told her to leave, go to rehab, but she comes in sober, stays sober for a little while or takes a lesser dose so we don't see the effects.</p><p>Yes, we can communicate with each other, but he's so wore out on all of this, he may just be taking a long vacation from all the stress his daughter has brought into the home. Honestly, I don't even know what I would say to him that he isn't so tried of hearing. He has yelled at her to leave until I thought his head was going to pop off due to his high blood pressure. </p><p>I'm afraid it's going to be left up to me to fight the battle. He's happy when shes not there, but his daughter doesnt care. I mean she says she cares, but continues with her same life style. Thanks for reading.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="daywithkitten, post: 676232, member: 19924"] Thank you all for your reponses. Our daughter has already lost custody her 3 children. The 12 year old is in my husband's custody and has been for years. The second child was taken from her by the boyfriends aunt years ago. The 3rd child just born in Nov 2015, cps gave custody to the father of the child. And yes she lost all her children due to drug use. I always knew she was on drugs, but she either lived with some boyfriend or she concealed it very well. Or, she just wasn't high when she was over visiting. Nope, she doesn't pay the bills. SHE DOESN'T WORK and has told me she dosent WANT to work. I know, I know. You know, the grown kids come in and say it's just til we get back on our feet. Hah! Translated, I need a place to stay so the money I do get my hands on can pay for my addiction. While I sleep all day and you get my kid to school, and feed her and help her with homework, yall know the routine. Sometimes, it was just for a short while, but she just keeps coming back like a bad penny. This time she came back 4 months pregnant. Yeah, I know, how dare us throw her out into the street. OMG, I just can't believe all this is happening to us. Husband and I have a great relationship except for this one thorn. Same page ? Now I don't even know. He has repeatedly told her to leave, go to rehab, but she comes in sober, stays sober for a little while or takes a lesser dose so we don't see the effects. Yes, we can communicate with each other, but he's so wore out on all of this, he may just be taking a long vacation from all the stress his daughter has brought into the home. Honestly, I don't even know what I would say to him that he isn't so tried of hearing. He has yelled at her to leave until I thought his head was going to pop off due to his high blood pressure. I'm afraid it's going to be left up to me to fight the battle. He's happy when shes not there, but his daughter doesnt care. I mean she says she cares, but continues with her same life style. Thanks for reading. [/QUOTE]
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