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<blockquote data-quote="Hound dog" data-source="post: 335907" data-attributes="member: 84"><p>There is your something good. <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p><p></p><p>How spoiled is your husband?? Not judging, just asking. My husband was horribly spoiled by me in the first 10 years or so of our marriage. Seriously. Think Edith Bunker for pete's sake. lol And each year he got worse and worse.</p><p></p><p>Then one day I got fed up. I stopped doing for husband. Completely. If he wanted to eat he knew where the kitchen was. If he wanted clean clothes he knew where the laundry room was.......ect. But I still did everything else I normally did.</p><p></p><p>Took like 3 weeks for it to sink in. husband is slow. lol Then he asked me what was up. I told him since he was putting in zero effort into the family and into me, I was returning the exact same to him. Then asked him how it felt.</p><p></p><p>He snapped out of it for a while. But we're still running in that gear. He does nothing, then I refuse to do anything for him at all. I'm using the Do to Get principle. Unfortunately he just isn't getting it or doesn't really care. I think it's the latter actually.</p><p></p><p>At least you got to have some fun. </p><p>Hugs</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Hound dog, post: 335907, member: 84"] There is your something good. :) How spoiled is your husband?? Not judging, just asking. My husband was horribly spoiled by me in the first 10 years or so of our marriage. Seriously. Think Edith Bunker for pete's sake. lol And each year he got worse and worse. Then one day I got fed up. I stopped doing for husband. Completely. If he wanted to eat he knew where the kitchen was. If he wanted clean clothes he knew where the laundry room was.......ect. But I still did everything else I normally did. Took like 3 weeks for it to sink in. husband is slow. lol Then he asked me what was up. I told him since he was putting in zero effort into the family and into me, I was returning the exact same to him. Then asked him how it felt. He snapped out of it for a while. But we're still running in that gear. He does nothing, then I refuse to do anything for him at all. I'm using the Do to Get principle. Unfortunately he just isn't getting it or doesn't really care. I think it's the latter actually. At least you got to have some fun. Hugs [/QUOTE]
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