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<blockquote data-quote="crazymama30" data-source="post: 335938" data-attributes="member: 3184"><p>Raising hand high to flutter's comment. I can usually hold it together at work, but not always at home. When it got to where I could not keep up a good front at work, when I was having almost panic attacks at work, and could barely do my job I got help, got medications. husband's psychiatric hospital stay pushed me over the edge I had been teetering on for a long time.</p><p> </p><p>If he won't get help? Then I am sorry. With my husband I finally gave him an ultimatum, see a psychiatrist or leave. No if ands or buts. I do not make ultimatums like that likely, and the last time it was with his drinking and he was gone for over a year. He did not drink at all for 8yrs. Now he will have a beer every so often, but with his medications it makes him sick and he does not drink like he used to. I think he was self medicating before.</p><p> </p><p>The ugly decision is unfortunately left up to you. It is not an easy one. If nothing changes, can you live with how things are now? That for me was a very hard question to answer, and still is sometimes.</p><p> </p><p>Glad the outfits were good. I laughed at the Amish comment, just cracks me up.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="crazymama30, post: 335938, member: 3184"] Raising hand high to flutter's comment. I can usually hold it together at work, but not always at home. When it got to where I could not keep up a good front at work, when I was having almost panic attacks at work, and could barely do my job I got help, got medications. husband's psychiatric hospital stay pushed me over the edge I had been teetering on for a long time. If he won't get help? Then I am sorry. With my husband I finally gave him an ultimatum, see a psychiatrist or leave. No if ands or buts. I do not make ultimatums like that likely, and the last time it was with his drinking and he was gone for over a year. He did not drink at all for 8yrs. Now he will have a beer every so often, but with his medications it makes him sick and he does not drink like he used to. I think he was self medicating before. The ugly decision is unfortunately left up to you. It is not an easy one. If nothing changes, can you live with how things are now? That for me was a very hard question to answer, and still is sometimes. Glad the outfits were good. I laughed at the Amish comment, just cracks me up. [/QUOTE]
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