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<blockquote data-quote="1905" data-source="post: 335963" data-attributes="member: 2668"><p>You may want to implement a family contract between you and husband, husband and I agreed in writing that he would cook dinner3 out of the 7 nights, instead of me doing EVERYTHING. Also, he does the food shoping, as I never get anything "good". We also put in there that we will each mess up at times. He has to help with chores, but we kept it simple, there is no way I can care for kids, house, myself (that part suffered) and yet watch a grown man, stronger than me, never help, it's beyond frustrating. I was gone for a month and husband surprised me by doing everything, he had no choice.The kids stepped up as well. I could not come back to that- It was killing me. Problems are not just one person, it's a whole family dynamic.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="1905, post: 335963, member: 2668"] You may want to implement a family contract between you and husband, husband and I agreed in writing that he would cook dinner3 out of the 7 nights, instead of me doing EVERYTHING. Also, he does the food shoping, as I never get anything "good". We also put in there that we will each mess up at times. He has to help with chores, but we kept it simple, there is no way I can care for kids, house, myself (that part suffered) and yet watch a grown man, stronger than me, never help, it's beyond frustrating. I was gone for a month and husband surprised me by doing everything, he had no choice.The kids stepped up as well. I could not come back to that- It was killing me. Problems are not just one person, it's a whole family dynamic. [/QUOTE]
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