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I'm stunned. 35 won the custody battle so to speak.
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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 610446" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>I am rather glad the judge ruled 50/50, esp if ex is as whacked as she seems to you. in my opinion it does a child far more harm than good to keep either parent away from the child unless abuse is happening. in my opinion Liahona has every right to be afraid for her son, as her ex is dangerous but able to fool authorities. In this case, with your grandson, both parents are not wonderful, but excluding either is not the answer. </p><p></p><p>I wondered if this would happen. Around here you have to pretty much kill someone to get your rights limited. Niece still must spend half her time with her mother even though the woman is an alcoholic drug addict *****. I mean each of those in the strictest legal sense of the word. She drinks and uses until she passes out most days, she lost her RN license due to drug use and stealing opiates from patients and even passing out at a patient's home was not enough to end her career as a nurse. It took almost ten YEARS of this to lose her license. Multiple drug arrests, other arrests, etc.... and still the judge will not modify the custody order. In fact, not long ago she did not know her daughter (age NINE) left her home on Friday (exsil tried to give niece's pet to a boyfriend ho wanted to cook and eat it - right in front of niece) and was at my parents until Sunday afternoon. Exsil had ZERO idea where niece was, and thought she had spent the entire time in her bedroom. Even that is not enough to make a judge modify the custody orders. I find it APPALLING, and wondered what your son's ex said to even think she had a chance at changing the custody order.</p><p></p><p>I hope and pray that J is as strong as he will need to be. I think you need to move past this and let the day to day joys of your life take over and let your son start dealing iwth his own life. If he is abusive to you again, hang up and don't answer the phone for a few days. Don't apologize, explain or otherwise discuss it with him. NOTHING you tell him will make any difference to him, because only what he wants to hear matters in his world.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 610446, member: 1233"] I am rather glad the judge ruled 50/50, esp if ex is as whacked as she seems to you. in my opinion it does a child far more harm than good to keep either parent away from the child unless abuse is happening. in my opinion Liahona has every right to be afraid for her son, as her ex is dangerous but able to fool authorities. In this case, with your grandson, both parents are not wonderful, but excluding either is not the answer. I wondered if this would happen. Around here you have to pretty much kill someone to get your rights limited. Niece still must spend half her time with her mother even though the woman is an alcoholic drug addict *****. I mean each of those in the strictest legal sense of the word. She drinks and uses until she passes out most days, she lost her RN license due to drug use and stealing opiates from patients and even passing out at a patient's home was not enough to end her career as a nurse. It took almost ten YEARS of this to lose her license. Multiple drug arrests, other arrests, etc.... and still the judge will not modify the custody order. In fact, not long ago she did not know her daughter (age NINE) left her home on Friday (exsil tried to give niece's pet to a boyfriend ho wanted to cook and eat it - right in front of niece) and was at my parents until Sunday afternoon. Exsil had ZERO idea where niece was, and thought she had spent the entire time in her bedroom. Even that is not enough to make a judge modify the custody orders. I find it APPALLING, and wondered what your son's ex said to even think she had a chance at changing the custody order. I hope and pray that J is as strong as he will need to be. I think you need to move past this and let the day to day joys of your life take over and let your son start dealing iwth his own life. If he is abusive to you again, hang up and don't answer the phone for a few days. Don't apologize, explain or otherwise discuss it with him. NOTHING you tell him will make any difference to him, because only what he wants to hear matters in his world. [/QUOTE]
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