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I'm stunned. 35 won the custody battle so to speak.
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 610693" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Hound Dog, as bad as 35 is, his ex is every bit as bad or worse. And, yes, possibly less mature. Yes, I said LESS mature. And not bright.At least 35 is academically bright (I wouldn't call him "life" smart). Ex really believed that she could run off with another man while married then wipe my grandson's family (she hates all of us) out of grandson's life. She honestly believed she and her new honey (now husband) would ride off into the sunset and never see us again. Yes, really. That's why she had a sobbing meltdown in the parking lot after the pre-trial. She thought she had it in the bag. </p><p></p><p>It wouldn't shock me if she insisted on going to trial even though the judge, the GAL, the psychologist AND her lawyer want her to sign the agreement that the Judge writes, which basically leaves thing about the same. One big difference is that ex used to forbid my son from calling grandson on the phone when she had custody. She said it was HER time and he could only call once even if she had him five days in a row. Now she has to let him talk to his son every day. It's going to be written down. I can not predict the future, but 35 is crazy about his son. May be the only person he loves that much. And since GAL and psychologist both questioned my grandson in detail, without his parents being there, I'm pretty satisfied that he is not being physically or verbally abused by either parent. He is the type of kid who would say so. Plus his behavior is excellent...no red flags of anything bad going on. I hope, I hope and pray.</p><p></p><p>I am going to try to get to MIssouri, if 35 has settled down and is more stable, this summer. I can't afford to go there a lot. He moved too far away from me and the money isn't there. I talk to him on the phone and send him little packages of fun stuff a lot. That's the most I can do. My ex husband goes there often. He is retired and can do it. Although he's a little bit disinterested when he is there, he is still pretty stable, obeys the law, doesn't do any kinky stuff and my grandson adores him. </p><p></p><p>Fortunately, my grandson is extremely bright (he tests way above his age level) much like most of the men in my family (I am not sure why it's just the men...lol). His intelligence has helped him better understand a very difficult situation. His reasoning powers are off the charts. But he is still just a five year old little boy and I wish he lived closer to us so that he could benefit by being near my husband, me, Sonic and Jumper. As it is now, there is no way we can afford to ALL take frequent trips to Missouri. He will be missing out on a wonderful Step-Grandfather, uncle, and aunt.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 610693, member: 1550"] Hound Dog, as bad as 35 is, his ex is every bit as bad or worse. And, yes, possibly less mature. Yes, I said LESS mature. And not bright.At least 35 is academically bright (I wouldn't call him "life" smart). Ex really believed that she could run off with another man while married then wipe my grandson's family (she hates all of us) out of grandson's life. She honestly believed she and her new honey (now husband) would ride off into the sunset and never see us again. Yes, really. That's why she had a sobbing meltdown in the parking lot after the pre-trial. She thought she had it in the bag. It wouldn't shock me if she insisted on going to trial even though the judge, the GAL, the psychologist AND her lawyer want her to sign the agreement that the Judge writes, which basically leaves thing about the same. One big difference is that ex used to forbid my son from calling grandson on the phone when she had custody. She said it was HER time and he could only call once even if she had him five days in a row. Now she has to let him talk to his son every day. It's going to be written down. I can not predict the future, but 35 is crazy about his son. May be the only person he loves that much. And since GAL and psychologist both questioned my grandson in detail, without his parents being there, I'm pretty satisfied that he is not being physically or verbally abused by either parent. He is the type of kid who would say so. Plus his behavior is excellent...no red flags of anything bad going on. I hope, I hope and pray. I am going to try to get to MIssouri, if 35 has settled down and is more stable, this summer. I can't afford to go there a lot. He moved too far away from me and the money isn't there. I talk to him on the phone and send him little packages of fun stuff a lot. That's the most I can do. My ex husband goes there often. He is retired and can do it. Although he's a little bit disinterested when he is there, he is still pretty stable, obeys the law, doesn't do any kinky stuff and my grandson adores him. Fortunately, my grandson is extremely bright (he tests way above his age level) much like most of the men in my family (I am not sure why it's just the men...lol). His intelligence has helped him better understand a very difficult situation. His reasoning powers are off the charts. But he is still just a five year old little boy and I wish he lived closer to us so that he could benefit by being near my husband, me, Sonic and Jumper. As it is now, there is no way we can afford to ALL take frequent trips to Missouri. He will be missing out on a wonderful Step-Grandfather, uncle, and aunt. [/QUOTE]
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