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<blockquote data-quote="hearthope" data-source="post: 15081" data-attributes="member: 2389"><p>I am not the one for detachment advice, I am struggling with that myself.</p><p></p><p>But, I agree with Janet. I know the knot in your stomach from wondering what might be happening with difficult child.</p><p></p><p>It may be wrong and others will be along with their advice, but showing up with something for her to ease your mind will help you get through the day.</p><p></p><p>Hope all is well with her,sending {{{hugs}}}</p><p></p><p>P.S. I just read through my post of detachment and I want to change my answer!</p><p> (yes, lol, detachment makes me crazy,lol)</p><p>I don't think you should go. What will you do when this happens again? and again? You have to be strong. What message will it send to her? Will she think that if she fails to contact you, you will seek her out and rescue her? You know your difficult child and I only know how my difficult child is.</p><p>I did ride by on tues after the scare on the news to see if my difficult child was at work. He was, but I didn't let him see me checking. I have to pass his job everyday to go home. I start about two miles away reminding myself NOT to look for him.</p><p>Detaching is VERY hard but each time we stand strong and not give in to our fears we get stronger and stronger. It makes the next time a little easier.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="hearthope, post: 15081, member: 2389"] I am not the one for detachment advice, I am struggling with that myself. But, I agree with Janet. I know the knot in your stomach from wondering what might be happening with difficult child. It may be wrong and others will be along with their advice, but showing up with something for her to ease your mind will help you get through the day. Hope all is well with her,sending {{{hugs}}} P.S. I just read through my post of detachment and I want to change my answer! (yes, lol, detachment makes me crazy,lol) I don't think you should go. What will you do when this happens again? and again? You have to be strong. What message will it send to her? Will she think that if she fails to contact you, you will seek her out and rescue her? You know your difficult child and I only know how my difficult child is. I did ride by on tues after the scare on the news to see if my difficult child was at work. He was, but I didn't let him see me checking. I have to pass his job everyday to go home. I start about two miles away reminding myself NOT to look for him. Detaching is VERY hard but each time we stand strong and not give in to our fears we get stronger and stronger. It makes the next time a little easier. [/QUOTE]
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