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In a totally new place and need perspective? Cedar? Anyone?
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 664977" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Well, years ago, probably due to my D H giving me self-esteem of a sort, and blotting out my void, I DID refuse to read my brother's accusatory letter. Some tell me that took a lot of willpower, but it didn't. I had no desire to hear the old "you're this, you did that, you are what I say you are, blah, blah, blah." It made the trash and I never did want to see it.</p><p></p><p>My sister is no longer a part of my life. Even the times I cheated, I just cheated to see IF she was posting, not WHAT she was posting. And I stopped reading her stuff a long time ago. Now I no longer belong to that community and she no longer can post meanly about me. I have less than zero incentive to find out what's on her mind. It's too late for her to apologize. It's too late for her to make me care if she wants to bait me. I'm not playing with her anymore.</p><p></p><p>What did husband say?</p><p></p><p>My husband thinks she is not an asset in my life. She has tried calling him to complain about me. </p><p></p><p>I'm grateful the cover page had blocked out most of her text. Must have been meant to be. I believe in that sort of thing. Like it's a sign to keep doing what I'm doing.</p><p></p><p>Cedar, what would be the gain you'd get in a situation like mine if you had read the text? That's where I've landed. What's the point? What do I gain? Yes, it's all about me on MY phone (kind of like my house is my castle). What do I gain by letting this person contact me on my own phone? What would you have gained by reading it?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 664977, member: 1550"] Well, years ago, probably due to my D H giving me self-esteem of a sort, and blotting out my void, I DID refuse to read my brother's accusatory letter. Some tell me that took a lot of willpower, but it didn't. I had no desire to hear the old "you're this, you did that, you are what I say you are, blah, blah, blah." It made the trash and I never did want to see it. My sister is no longer a part of my life. Even the times I cheated, I just cheated to see IF she was posting, not WHAT she was posting. And I stopped reading her stuff a long time ago. Now I no longer belong to that community and she no longer can post meanly about me. I have less than zero incentive to find out what's on her mind. It's too late for her to apologize. It's too late for her to make me care if she wants to bait me. I'm not playing with her anymore. What did husband say? My husband thinks she is not an asset in my life. She has tried calling him to complain about me. I'm grateful the cover page had blocked out most of her text. Must have been meant to be. I believe in that sort of thing. Like it's a sign to keep doing what I'm doing. Cedar, what would be the gain you'd get in a situation like mine if you had read the text? That's where I've landed. What's the point? What do I gain? Yes, it's all about me on MY phone (kind of like my house is my castle). What do I gain by letting this person contact me on my own phone? What would you have gained by reading it? [/QUOTE]
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