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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 665076" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Well, as bad as your mother and sister were, they didn't actively try to shut you up by calling the cops on you repeatedly. This is so out there and so normal for her that I can't make contact a possibility again. She will go to any length to control what I do or say so I feel silenced anyway. I believe she would even call my job or bother my D H again. She is in a bad place in her life and I'm sure she is still with her abusive boyfriend. That makes her crankier than usual, but she won't take it out on him so her bad mood gets taken out on me. </p><p></p><p>This is an easy call. The risk to me is too great. Did I ever mention I moved to Wisconsin partly to get away from her? I like us in different states.</p><p></p><p>If your sisters were more than just vile, but called the cops on you and contacted your husband and if you were afraid they'd even go further, you may feel you have no choice either. </p><p></p><p>She has tried to get my father angry at me then lamented "But he'll never get it."</p><p></p><p>Get what? That's I'm not crazy?</p><p></p><p>I'm not.</p><p></p><p>Anyway, your sisters are actually not a danger to you.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 665076, member: 1550"] Well, as bad as your mother and sister were, they didn't actively try to shut you up by calling the cops on you repeatedly. This is so out there and so normal for her that I can't make contact a possibility again. She will go to any length to control what I do or say so I feel silenced anyway. I believe she would even call my job or bother my D H again. She is in a bad place in her life and I'm sure she is still with her abusive boyfriend. That makes her crankier than usual, but she won't take it out on him so her bad mood gets taken out on me. This is an easy call. The risk to me is too great. Did I ever mention I moved to Wisconsin partly to get away from her? I like us in different states. If your sisters were more than just vile, but called the cops on you and contacted your husband and if you were afraid they'd even go further, you may feel you have no choice either. She has tried to get my father angry at me then lamented "But he'll never get it." Get what? That's I'm not crazy? I'm not. Anyway, your sisters are actually not a danger to you. [/QUOTE]
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