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In a totally new place and need perspective? Cedar? Anyone?
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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 665197" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>No. You had objects. Objects onto whom to cathect. To attach energy to, so that you could develop as a person. You had no choice in the matter. </p><p></p><p>Think of it in terms of an egg donor and what do you call the woman who carries the implanted egg and baby to term for women who cannot. </p><p></p><p>As an infant and toddler you attached to your mother in the same way. </p><p></p><p>I am questioning if the women we call mothers were really that at all, in the sense of motherhood. </p><p></p><p>I have to be careful here because I am trying to get out of the thicket, not go deeper within.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 665197, member: 18958"] No. You had objects. Objects onto whom to cathect. To attach energy to, so that you could develop as a person. You had no choice in the matter. Think of it in terms of an egg donor and what do you call the woman who carries the implanted egg and baby to term for women who cannot. As an infant and toddler you attached to your mother in the same way. I am questioning if the women we call mothers were really that at all, in the sense of motherhood. I have to be careful here because I am trying to get out of the thicket, not go deeper within. [/QUOTE]
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