I think that most men are just uncomfortable with drama and that's why he says he'd have appreciated a heads up.
Drama has been my life since my son entered public school. And finally I have a bit of a reprieve from it and now I'm starting over.
If I had given him a heads up, it wouldn't have changed anything other than to give her a heads up on how to respond. She's 19!!!!
He used an example of how he was turned off of school when he was in grade 9 because his teacher had given an hour long spiel about how things were going to be in his class.
By that I guess he means that my rant likely turned her off. He was a kid, she's 19!!!
Wendy
Frustrated but hopeful