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<blockquote data-quote="Ktllc" data-source="post: 535381" data-attributes="member: 11847"><p>Welcome! You son sounds a bit like mine. Asking the same question a million time, oh gosh it would drive anyone nuts! Taing stuff away does not work for mine either. It actually makes things worse because than he obsesses about getting his stuff back. I too sometimes have to just yell to stop him on his track, but it is not as bad as it used to be (we used to have about 10 meltdown a day). </p><p>The key is to find the underlying reason for the behavior. It takes time but it is doable. I would to suggest you explore sensory issues. Explore the use of visual stategies to help him understand what you are saying (heps my son A LOT). </p><p>To talk face to face at his level is also VERY good (works for V as well), but you'll have to learn to do in a conscious way without resorting to raising your voice. And try to give him explaination as of why you have a special request. I often say I have to explain the obvious to V and he is NOT stupid. He just does not necessarly take other's perspective very good.</p><p>Again, welcome.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Ktllc, post: 535381, member: 11847"] Welcome! You son sounds a bit like mine. Asking the same question a million time, oh gosh it would drive anyone nuts! Taing stuff away does not work for mine either. It actually makes things worse because than he obsesses about getting his stuff back. I too sometimes have to just yell to stop him on his track, but it is not as bad as it used to be (we used to have about 10 meltdown a day). The key is to find the underlying reason for the behavior. It takes time but it is doable. I would to suggest you explore sensory issues. Explore the use of visual stategies to help him understand what you are saying (heps my son A LOT). To talk face to face at his level is also VERY good (works for V as well), but you'll have to learn to do in a conscious way without resorting to raising your voice. And try to give him explaination as of why you have a special request. I often say I have to explain the obvious to V and he is NOT stupid. He just does not necessarly take other's perspective very good. Again, welcome. [/QUOTE]
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