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<blockquote data-quote="Abbey" data-source="post: 282303" data-attributes="member: 179"><p><strong>No adults get to do what they like most of the time but most wise adults allow themselves a few hours a week to do it. </strong></p><p> </p><p>Very wisely said.</p><p> </p><p>On another note. Your anger at husband is quite normal in the grieving process. Keep in mind that your kids are most likely going through the same stages, but manifest it in a way that might be different from yours. I can't recommend this book enough. There is probably not one library that does not have it in stock.</p><p> </p><p><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Death-Dying-Elizabeth-Kubler-Ross/dp/002089130X/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1245067067&sr=1-1" target="_blank">http://www.amazon.com/Death-Dying-Elizabeth-Kubler-Ross/dp/002089130X/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1245067067&sr=1-1</a></p><p> </p><p>She also has some other books on the grieving process. The 'would of/should of' train of thought will tie you down to where you can't move on. As said before, your kids are somewhere in this process as well. Even though they can be mean little buggers, you know deep inside they are thinking things like you are. </p><p> </p><p>Take some time for yourself, hon. Give an hour each day for *me* time. I'm trying to do that myself and some days I can't think of anything to do other than just sit in quiet. My favorite thing is to just sit in the sunshine (when available...grrrr...) and just relax.</p><p> </p><p>Hugs, Lisa.</p><p> </p><p>Abbey</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Abbey, post: 282303, member: 179"] [b]No adults get to do what they like most of the time but most wise adults allow themselves a few hours a week to do it. [/b] Very wisely said. On another note. Your anger at husband is quite normal in the grieving process. Keep in mind that your kids are most likely going through the same stages, but manifest it in a way that might be different from yours. I can't recommend this book enough. There is probably not one library that does not have it in stock. [URL]http://www.amazon.com/Death-Dying-Elizabeth-Kubler-Ross/dp/002089130X/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1245067067&sr=1-1[/URL] She also has some other books on the grieving process. The 'would of/should of' train of thought will tie you down to where you can't move on. As said before, your kids are somewhere in this process as well. Even though they can be mean little buggers, you know deep inside they are thinking things like you are. Take some time for yourself, hon. Give an hour each day for *me* time. I'm trying to do that myself and some days I can't think of anything to do other than just sit in quiet. My favorite thing is to just sit in the sunshine (when available...grrrr...) and just relax. Hugs, Lisa. Abbey [/QUOTE]
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