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input on this yukky teacher situation please
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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 715446" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>NO NO NO NO NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Do NOT sit down and talk to Ferb!!</p><p></p><p>He is already unwilling to talk to you about his daily life. If you do this, he will shut you out and it could last for years to come. There are no words that could come out of your mouth that would make any difference to him regarding this situation. </p><p></p><p>He is 18 and thinks he knows everything. He would see you as trying to meddle in something you have no right to meddle in. He would think you are trying to destroy the most important thing in his life. Right now this woman IS the most important thing in his life. </p><p></p><p>Do NOT try to talk to him about this, or admit that you know anything about this. Keep the letter, gather all the evidence you can, and stay quiet. Be prepared to get help for him once school starts, be prepared for his crash once she ends it, but other than that, right now you cannot do anything. </p><p></p><p>If you end the relationship, you may actually end your relationship with your son for many years. Given the family history of holding grudges, etc..., he has good examples of that, and really could cut himself out of your life for a very long time. </p><p></p><p>Read the PM I sent you!!! Know I am here for you. I know it is hard to watch this situation.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 715446, member: 1233"] NO NO NO NO NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Do NOT sit down and talk to Ferb!! He is already unwilling to talk to you about his daily life. If you do this, he will shut you out and it could last for years to come. There are no words that could come out of your mouth that would make any difference to him regarding this situation. He is 18 and thinks he knows everything. He would see you as trying to meddle in something you have no right to meddle in. He would think you are trying to destroy the most important thing in his life. Right now this woman IS the most important thing in his life. Do NOT try to talk to him about this, or admit that you know anything about this. Keep the letter, gather all the evidence you can, and stay quiet. Be prepared to get help for him once school starts, be prepared for his crash once she ends it, but other than that, right now you cannot do anything. If you end the relationship, you may actually end your relationship with your son for many years. Given the family history of holding grudges, etc..., he has good examples of that, and really could cut himself out of your life for a very long time. Read the PM I sent you!!! Know I am here for you. I know it is hard to watch this situation. [/QUOTE]
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