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<blockquote data-quote="pigless in VA" data-source="post: 715656" data-attributes="member: 11832"><p>Some more information has come to light. My therapist really wants me to talk with Ferb with the aid of Ferb's therapist. She is thinking that if I am not judgmental, that Ferb will be willing to come to me for help when the relationship blows up. </p><p></p><p>My neighbor has confirmed that Mrs. X's car has been parked in front of our house when I am gone. When you cheat on your husband, you really should not have a recognizable vanity plate. </p><p></p><p>I found a pair of ladies' sunglasses on the table. When I questioned Ferb about them, he immediately said they were his. There was an awkward moment where I knew he was lying and he knew that I knew that he was lying. I chose to drop it. </p><p></p><p>I found a house key hidden in Ferb's room.</p><p></p><p>A friend shared with me that she had a brief relationship with a high school teacher. She feels Ferb would be positively mortified if I confront the issue head on. She says there is a lot of shame and doubt and confusion swirling about these relationships. </p><p></p><p>I did some online reading about how the students feel and it seems to vary. Some feel intensely pressured while others' view it as the best thing that ever happened to them.</p><p></p><p>Now that I am positive this is happening and at my house, I am even more furious at Mrs. X. I also cannot imagine having a conversation with Ferb about it. I don't want to tell him to stop, because he will be angry with me forever. I think I have to keep squelching the urge to warn him about this woman. He won't listen to me anyway. Even when the relationship ends, I cannot imagine him coming to me for advice under any circumstances. I think I have to keep pretending I know nothing and keep gathering evidence on the side. <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/sick.png" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":sick:" title="sick :sick:" data-shortname=":sick:" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="pigless in VA, post: 715656, member: 11832"] Some more information has come to light. My therapist really wants me to talk with Ferb with the aid of Ferb's therapist. She is thinking that if I am not judgmental, that Ferb will be willing to come to me for help when the relationship blows up. My neighbor has confirmed that Mrs. X's car has been parked in front of our house when I am gone. When you cheat on your husband, you really should not have a recognizable vanity plate. I found a pair of ladies' sunglasses on the table. When I questioned Ferb about them, he immediately said they were his. There was an awkward moment where I knew he was lying and he knew that I knew that he was lying. I chose to drop it. I found a house key hidden in Ferb's room. A friend shared with me that she had a brief relationship with a high school teacher. She feels Ferb would be positively mortified if I confront the issue head on. She says there is a lot of shame and doubt and confusion swirling about these relationships. I did some online reading about how the students feel and it seems to vary. Some feel intensely pressured while others' view it as the best thing that ever happened to them. Now that I am positive this is happening and at my house, I am even more furious at Mrs. X. I also cannot imagine having a conversation with Ferb about it. I don't want to tell him to stop, because he will be angry with me forever. I think I have to keep squelching the urge to warn him about this woman. He won't listen to me anyway. Even when the relationship ends, I cannot imagine him coming to me for advice under any circumstances. I think I have to keep pretending I know nothing and keep gathering evidence on the side. :sick: [/QUOTE]
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