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<blockquote data-quote="BloodiedButUnbowed" data-source="post: 715657" data-attributes="member: 13303"><p>Can you schedule a session, just for you, with Ferb's therapist to get their take before bringing anything up to Ferb himself? How do you feel about this therapist - do you trust them, does Ferb trust them?</p><p></p><p>If you felt that "evidence" was necessary, you could install nanny cams, or voice activated recorders, in the rooms where you know, or suspect, Ferb is spending time with this woman. I don't know if Ferb is tech savvy enough to know what these would look like, or where they'd be hidden.</p><p></p><p>But I don't know if taking these steps would be productive in the long run. Since both Ferb and Mrs. X are adults the police would not be interested.</p><p></p><p>You could take the "evidence", assuming any is collected, to Mr. X and to the high school where Mrs. X works, which would probably (but not definitely) end the relationship, but then Ferb would certainly learn that you were behind it all, and who knows what would happen then.</p><p></p><p>So I guess my question is, what would you eventually do with any information you gather? Would it be productive for you, or your son? Would knowing, for certain, the exact nature of Ferb's relationship with Mrs. X give you peace of mind? Would the information lead you to a decision, such as no longer allowing Ferb to live under your roof if he is doing (whatever)? You see where I'm going here....</p><p></p><p>Best wishes, this is really a messy situation.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BloodiedButUnbowed, post: 715657, member: 13303"] Can you schedule a session, just for you, with Ferb's therapist to get their take before bringing anything up to Ferb himself? How do you feel about this therapist - do you trust them, does Ferb trust them? If you felt that "evidence" was necessary, you could install nanny cams, or voice activated recorders, in the rooms where you know, or suspect, Ferb is spending time with this woman. I don't know if Ferb is tech savvy enough to know what these would look like, or where they'd be hidden. But I don't know if taking these steps would be productive in the long run. Since both Ferb and Mrs. X are adults the police would not be interested. You could take the "evidence", assuming any is collected, to Mr. X and to the high school where Mrs. X works, which would probably (but not definitely) end the relationship, but then Ferb would certainly learn that you were behind it all, and who knows what would happen then. So I guess my question is, what would you eventually do with any information you gather? Would it be productive for you, or your son? Would knowing, for certain, the exact nature of Ferb's relationship with Mrs. X give you peace of mind? Would the information lead you to a decision, such as no longer allowing Ferb to live under your roof if he is doing (whatever)? You see where I'm going here.... Best wishes, this is really a messy situation. [/QUOTE]
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