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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 715707" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>I am not sure that for me putting the decision (and responsibility) in the hands of ferb's therapist is your best shot. I could see as preferable going to my own therapist and talking through what lies behind my reticence to take action and either reaffirming my choice to stay silent or deciding otherwise.</p><p></p><p>As I see the situation this is a conflict between you and you which is completely understandable given ferb's history, his dad's and your own. And your feelings and fears past and present.</p><p></p><p>If your state's legal code spells out that what might be happening is a crime, does that change things for you? Have you thought of setting aside the coffee cups (a la monica's blue dress)?</p><p></p><p>Again. I think you might make all of this more fraught if you widen the conversation, seeing this as something to talk about in the main. You suspect your son who is vulnerable is a crime victim and the perpetrator is somebody you believe may be a serial abuser. I agee with cheeryn. What is there to talk about? Yes. There are reasons to stay sidelined. But will talking to ferb help him or you?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 715707, member: 18958"] I am not sure that for me putting the decision (and responsibility) in the hands of ferb's therapist is your best shot. I could see as preferable going to my own therapist and talking through what lies behind my reticence to take action and either reaffirming my choice to stay silent or deciding otherwise. As I see the situation this is a conflict between you and you which is completely understandable given ferb's history, his dad's and your own. And your feelings and fears past and present. If your state's legal code spells out that what might be happening is a crime, does that change things for you? Have you thought of setting aside the coffee cups (a la monica's blue dress)? Again. I think you might make all of this more fraught if you widen the conversation, seeing this as something to talk about in the main. You suspect your son who is vulnerable is a crime victim and the perpetrator is somebody you believe may be a serial abuser. I agee with cheeryn. What is there to talk about? Yes. There are reasons to stay sidelined. But will talking to ferb help him or you? [/QUOTE]
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