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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 715708" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>I found this...sex laws in VA.</p><p></p><p><a href="http://www.wboycelaw.com/Articles/Don-t-stand-so-close-to-me-Sex-crimes-in-Virginia.shtml" target="_blank">The Truth & Details About Sex Crimes in Virginia | Boyce & Leahy, Lawyers</a></p><p></p><p>Regardless of the so-called morality of turning in the teacher, if it is even possible to get action, I disagree that you MUST turn her in if it endangers Ferb. I would not. Not if my own parent/child relationship were at stake or if my adult child could commit suidide, which is in the family tree.Also, what if she is terminated? Well, there is NOTHING to stop Ferb from renouncing you forever and running to her, only to have worse consequences.</p><p></p><p>I adopted a six year old boy who decided to walk out on us in his late twenties. He has never come back. It is close to thirteen totally silent years. Yes, they can do this. This was done for far less than if you interferred in Ferb's relationship, in which there is no evidence there is even a sexual relationship going on. Neither will ever admit it, even if you take action...in my opinion they will bond together like Romeo and Juliet if you make a serious move...and for what? You can't prove anything.</p><p></p><p>This is no black and white. I would never do something t hat may harm my unstable adult children. Yes, I use tough love. No, I don't push them toward the edge. It is still not illegal in Virginia. Please don't feel pressure from me or anyone to do anything. This is of consequence only to you, not any of us. Sounds like this would possibly require a court battle that you can't win, if it is taken up at all.</p><p></p><p>I hope you can find peace in YOUR decision. It is YOURS only. You are not immoral or terrible if you don't say anything....nor if you do. in my opinion this is about Ferb first. You can always send a letter without or with your name at a better time. If you say anything, Ferb may not forgive you and his security blanket will be....HER!</p><p></p><p>Hugs to you</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 715708, member: 1550"] I found this...sex laws in VA. [URL='http://www.wboycelaw.com/Articles/Don-t-stand-so-close-to-me-Sex-crimes-in-Virginia.shtml']The Truth & Details About Sex Crimes in Virginia | Boyce & Leahy, Lawyers[/URL] Regardless of the so-called morality of turning in the teacher, if it is even possible to get action, I disagree that you MUST turn her in if it endangers Ferb. I would not. Not if my own parent/child relationship were at stake or if my adult child could commit suidide, which is in the family tree.Also, what if she is terminated? Well, there is NOTHING to stop Ferb from renouncing you forever and running to her, only to have worse consequences. I adopted a six year old boy who decided to walk out on us in his late twenties. He has never come back. It is close to thirteen totally silent years. Yes, they can do this. This was done for far less than if you interferred in Ferb's relationship, in which there is no evidence there is even a sexual relationship going on. Neither will ever admit it, even if you take action...in my opinion they will bond together like Romeo and Juliet if you make a serious move...and for what? You can't prove anything. This is no black and white. I would never do something t hat may harm my unstable adult children. Yes, I use tough love. No, I don't push them toward the edge. It is still not illegal in Virginia. Please don't feel pressure from me or anyone to do anything. This is of consequence only to you, not any of us. Sounds like this would possibly require a court battle that you can't win, if it is taken up at all. I hope you can find peace in YOUR decision. It is YOURS only. You are not immoral or terrible if you don't say anything....nor if you do. in my opinion this is about Ferb first. You can always send a letter without or with your name at a better time. If you say anything, Ferb may not forgive you and his security blanket will be....HER! Hugs to you [/QUOTE]
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