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input on this yukky teacher situation please
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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 715811" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>I would think twice before going to Ferb's therapist. Why? This is the person that FERB goes to and trusts to spill his guts to. At least to some degree. If he feels that you are going and talking to his therapist, and if his therapist is talking to you, he may feel that he cannot trust his therapist. It could poison the well, so to speak. I don't know how deep Ferb's trust issues go. </p><p></p><p>If Ferb becomes mistrustful of this therapist, he may refuse to see any therapist at all. This would be a disaster. I would not take that chance at this point. I would wait until a more critical point or until Ferb invited me to speak to his therapist with him. If I needed to contact his therapist with information, I would send a letter. The therapist can choose to use the information or not as he sees fit.</p><p></p><p>There is only a month or so until school is back in session. I would do my best to be patient that long, galling as it is. Then Ferb will be involved in college life and the teacher will have a new crop of teenage boys to tempt her. This will be a time of change, and it may be the time for the relationship to die off naturally, or for you to take some sort of action. </p><p></p><p>I honestly don't know if I would go to the law. I would probably go to the school board and state licensing board. Maybe the media. Probably all at once. I would for dang sure go to Mr. X with this info.</p><p></p><p>Why not ask the neighbor to let you know the next time they see the car at your house? Then you can drive to your house and "stop in" to see Ferb and 'catch' him and Mrs. X in the act? It would certainly end some of the uncertainty if you want to bring it to a head. Or install a cheap security system with online monitoring so that you can see when her car is there and you don't have to ask the neighbor to call you. Just a couple of outside cameras that you can monitor from your tablet would do it. Install them when Ferb isn't home.</p><p></p><p>I do think that if this goes to the media and the story breaks, more than a few people will come forward. I doubt that this was the first year that she ahs done this.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 715811, member: 1233"] I would think twice before going to Ferb's therapist. Why? This is the person that FERB goes to and trusts to spill his guts to. At least to some degree. If he feels that you are going and talking to his therapist, and if his therapist is talking to you, he may feel that he cannot trust his therapist. It could poison the well, so to speak. I don't know how deep Ferb's trust issues go. If Ferb becomes mistrustful of this therapist, he may refuse to see any therapist at all. This would be a disaster. I would not take that chance at this point. I would wait until a more critical point or until Ferb invited me to speak to his therapist with him. If I needed to contact his therapist with information, I would send a letter. The therapist can choose to use the information or not as he sees fit. There is only a month or so until school is back in session. I would do my best to be patient that long, galling as it is. Then Ferb will be involved in college life and the teacher will have a new crop of teenage boys to tempt her. This will be a time of change, and it may be the time for the relationship to die off naturally, or for you to take some sort of action. I honestly don't know if I would go to the law. I would probably go to the school board and state licensing board. Maybe the media. Probably all at once. I would for dang sure go to Mr. X with this info. Why not ask the neighbor to let you know the next time they see the car at your house? Then you can drive to your house and "stop in" to see Ferb and 'catch' him and Mrs. X in the act? It would certainly end some of the uncertainty if you want to bring it to a head. Or install a cheap security system with online monitoring so that you can see when her car is there and you don't have to ask the neighbor to call you. Just a couple of outside cameras that you can monitor from your tablet would do it. Install them when Ferb isn't home. I do think that if this goes to the media and the story breaks, more than a few people will come forward. I doubt that this was the first year that she ahs done this. [/QUOTE]
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