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<blockquote data-quote="keista" data-source="post: 463170" data-attributes="member: 11965"><p>From your previous posts, I can't get out of my head that this is NOT about money. Biomom doesn't seem to want to <strong>allow</strong> all these enrichment activities especially if you want them or they involve you in any way. You've posted before of activities you were willing to pay for, and biomom did everything in her power to block it from happening. Unfortunately, cgfg is the pawn in this game.</p><p></p><p>in my opinion the money is a non-issue Directly to biomom? WHY? Stop that now. Anything "extra" he can pay directly to whoever is collecting it.</p><p></p><p>Does the support/parenting agreement address any of these issues? The parenting plan I filled out did. It got very SPECIFIC. Who pays for activities? Who drives to activities? The most logical sample I saw, stated that the registering parent pays and drives. If husband registers her for something, he's responsible for payment and transportation - IOW biomom<strong> can't stop him</strong> (by default you) from taking her to the activity.</p><p></p><p>Was this two dresses or just one? Who's side of the family is the wedding for? Sadly, if it's your's and husband's then yeah, you have to pay for the accessories. If it's biomom's or a friend's, then heck no, you don't have to pay for anything else! Homecoming? Nope. Not a penny more. "Normal" expenses are supposed to come out of support.</p><p></p><p>I'm so sorry cgfg is stuck in the middle of this, because it really is NOT about money or who can afford what. It's about biomom's need to control, and with every penny you spend, she gets more of it. And when you're willing to spend the money, she still finds ways to block your efforts. You need to stop the insanity somehow.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="keista, post: 463170, member: 11965"] From your previous posts, I can't get out of my head that this is NOT about money. Biomom doesn't seem to want to [B]allow[/B] all these enrichment activities especially if you want them or they involve you in any way. You've posted before of activities you were willing to pay for, and biomom did everything in her power to block it from happening. Unfortunately, cgfg is the pawn in this game. in my opinion the money is a non-issue Directly to biomom? WHY? Stop that now. Anything "extra" he can pay directly to whoever is collecting it. Does the support/parenting agreement address any of these issues? The parenting plan I filled out did. It got very SPECIFIC. Who pays for activities? Who drives to activities? The most logical sample I saw, stated that the registering parent pays and drives. If husband registers her for something, he's responsible for payment and transportation - IOW biomom[B] can't stop him[/B] (by default you) from taking her to the activity. Was this two dresses or just one? Who's side of the family is the wedding for? Sadly, if it's your's and husband's then yeah, you have to pay for the accessories. If it's biomom's or a friend's, then heck no, you don't have to pay for anything else! Homecoming? Nope. Not a penny more. "Normal" expenses are supposed to come out of support. I'm so sorry cgfg is stuck in the middle of this, because it really is NOT about money or who can afford what. It's about biomom's need to control, and with every penny you spend, she gets more of it. And when you're willing to spend the money, she still finds ways to block your efforts. You need to stop the insanity somehow. [/QUOTE]
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