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Interested discussion with my two adopted daughters about adoption
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<blockquote data-quote="Nancy" data-source="post: 500866" data-attributes="member: 59"><p>Well all I can tell you is my experience. difficult child was very jealous of her sister because she was not adopted. I can only guess that she felt different and not loved as much although nothing could be further from the truth. I don't think it mattered what we did, she had a hole in her heart and we couldn't fill it and she resented her sister. She called her our perfect daughter and never treated her sister nice at all. husband and I have come to the conclusion that families with biochildren should think long and hard before they adopt because it is hard on everyone involved.</p><p></p><p>Today I don't think difficult child feels the same way. We've been through a lot but I don't think she could deny how much welove and support her now. But yes growing up it was an issue.</p><p></p><p>nancy</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Nancy, post: 500866, member: 59"] Well all I can tell you is my experience. difficult child was very jealous of her sister because she was not adopted. I can only guess that she felt different and not loved as much although nothing could be further from the truth. I don't think it mattered what we did, she had a hole in her heart and we couldn't fill it and she resented her sister. She called her our perfect daughter and never treated her sister nice at all. husband and I have come to the conclusion that families with biochildren should think long and hard before they adopt because it is hard on everyone involved. Today I don't think difficult child feels the same way. We've been through a lot but I don't think she could deny how much welove and support her now. But yes growing up it was an issue. nancy [/QUOTE]
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