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<blockquote data-quote="slsh" data-source="post: 375620" data-attributes="member: 8"><p>Jealousy? Check. I have no problems but everyone else does (especially in my family)? Un-hunh. I am above social norms and you should know that? Yep. It's someone else's fault? Absolutely. That behavior is in the past? Okaaaaay (until you do it again next week).</p><p></p><p>Sounds so familiar.</p><p></p><p>This is why family therapy eventually drove me nuts. I felt like every time we had to address the diversions/excuses/smoke screens that thank you threw up, it only reinforced them and drove us further away from dealing with- his issues. in my humble opinion, it's pointless to deal with- "family" issues when you still have a kiddo who just so doesn't get it. Her choices, her actions, her consequences - all of it is hers. None of it has to do with you, staff, sibs, etc. It's just so hard to get that connection made. To be honest, thank you still doesn't have it. </p><p></p><p>I'm really glad that therapist is getting it, and staff too. Also *really* nice that they took the rap for not letting her go to the game!! And that when communication got squared away, that is the decision they would have made without your input. Sounds positive!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="slsh, post: 375620, member: 8"] Jealousy? Check. I have no problems but everyone else does (especially in my family)? Un-hunh. I am above social norms and you should know that? Yep. It's someone else's fault? Absolutely. That behavior is in the past? Okaaaaay (until you do it again next week). Sounds so familiar. This is why family therapy eventually drove me nuts. I felt like every time we had to address the diversions/excuses/smoke screens that thank you threw up, it only reinforced them and drove us further away from dealing with- his issues. in my humble opinion, it's pointless to deal with- "family" issues when you still have a kiddo who just so doesn't get it. Her choices, her actions, her consequences - all of it is hers. None of it has to do with you, staff, sibs, etc. It's just so hard to get that connection made. To be honest, thank you still doesn't have it. I'm really glad that therapist is getting it, and staff too. Also *really* nice that they took the rap for not letting her go to the game!! And that when communication got squared away, that is the decision they would have made without your input. Sounds positive! [/QUOTE]
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