For those who recall the guy I met last week, I did try to pull back a little after we met and I continued to email, albeit less, and tell him that I might have to move due to finding work and that I didn't want him to feel pressured so it was ok to approach this as friends, and as a matter of fact, I felt we should take things slow. Now, he hasn't been the pushy type at all but did tell me that this was ok, but he would enjoy taking me out on a nicer date. So, tonight we met for a drink before a nice dinner, then we went to a typical place for another drink and to talk after dinner. An unexpected horrible storm blew over us. All power was off- there weren't even emergency lights in the place (which is illegal)- and we saw the transformer out front blow up. I didn't want to ask him to my place because it was only our second time meeting and my house is in no shape for company. The poor guy has to drive over an hour to get home- I feel so bad for him. What's worse is that after I checked the weather report a few minutes ago, I found that the storm is moving in the direction he is traveling. I feel horrible about not asking him to my house, but I simply don't know him well enough. We still haven't traded home phone numbers or last names. I did asked him to email me when he got home to let me know he made it safely. And tomorrow, he has to drive back to this area to go to work. I feel so guilty!