Your story brought me right back to the way I lived for many many years with my son. My son did exactly the same things as your daughter...I felt like I was going nuts!
Lately I had been feeling guilty for kicking my son out last May but reading this has made me so thankful I did kick him out. You have a long road ahead....but you can get through it. Everyone here is right. Keep calling the police. Make the system get involved! I hardly ever called the police on my son because I didn't want him to have a record and live a normal life....that was a mistake!
Please hang in there. Soon, your daughter will have to pay for the many bad decisions she is making. You are correct....you are not alone.