I didn't know there was a difference.
Medication doesn't change antisocial personality disorder. There are no medications that really help personality disorders. You are better off without him.
My dad is a classic narcissistic. He has NO interest in anything unless it's him. Everything you say he turns into something about him. He has always been extremely difficult. My mom was a borderline. You may understand why I don't see my family of origin much!!! The only one I still talk to is my father and it's mostly because he is already so old...not going to walk on him now, but won't let him abuse me anymore either.
And I'm sorry about your daughter.