Wow I found this highly inappropriate to ask a new member of this board. People come hear in pain and to ask them to admit to self-blame from the get-go is just mean in my opinion. I have no idea of what possibly the poster of this message hope to accomplish but I just found it mean spirited. I am just pointing it out so the same mistake will not be made again. New people will not stay if they feel judged right out of the gate, especially by people who should no better because they have been here so long. I also think the mods should re-visit whether these kind of blame statements should be made here on the board.
Just my opinion, take it or leave it.
