I think Insane's questions were fine. We have asked these questions since forever. I've been here a decade. Sometimes the kids ARE alcohol affected for various reasons. And the other issues she raised are also valid. I was thinking myself of attachment disorder and wondered if she were adopted. I'm not going to stop asking questions because I feel that is trying to hlep. My son actually WAS exposed to drugs and alcohol and was adopted. And there have been people who have come here who drank during their pregnancies and it has been addressed without hard feelings.
Insane has been here a long time and I've never seen her rude or inappropriate and think she is well-liked in the community.
Anyhow, I support being able to ask questions to try to help find answers and as far as a decade back, we always did.
