It is best to leave your issues at the door here. There will always be triggers, but telling somebody your feelings privately to me is more appropriate than on a forum. I don't like forum fighting. And I've done it!!! But I've apologized and realized I was wrong. I don't think the entire community needs to know your opinion. Or mine. This is not a real life group therapy session where one therapist sits in the front of the room and moderates the discussions...and some really seem to enjoy group confrontations. Been to enough groups to know that. However, this place is different.
You can PM the person privately and nicely discuss it. Then it is up to the person you brought up your issues to to decide if she feels the point is valid. We take what we like and leave the rest. Trust me, if something is truly inappropriate, the mods are great. They intervene. But this was not a case like that.
