Ok, so I'm confused at to who this message is for? All of us, I know, but is this to say Insane was wrong? I personally trust the mods to tell me if I'm out of line and would rather not have anyone else take that on. The mods are long time members and care a lot for the board and I can only imagine how much time they spend working here for no pay.
Most people are shy about posting on forums and most will never post, and their reasons are more likely to be that they are afraid of somebody recognizing their story or other reasons. We are not just here for people to post. People learn and find support by just reading too. Some don't like to engage.
2Much, with all respect to you, and God knows you have had a ton on your head, you can be harsh yourself in your answers when you respond. So can I. I am trying to work on that regarding myself. We hope...we never offend anyone, but we could. The poster did not say she was offended. If she was, would that not be her place??
Ok, well, I'll let the mods take over now. I just wanted to get that out. I feel I've been here long enough to speak my mind too 
P.S.--I sure miss Janet and hope she is doing ok.
