I believe that we all have good intentions here. We're not professionals, therapists, or experts. We are parents who have been through the wringer more times than we can count.
It is understandable that two people interpret the same words in very different ways. The complexities and depths of life experiences and assumptions are different for every person.
We all have our own realities. Anais Nin said “We don’t see things as they are, we see things as we are”.
I also like to keep in mind what Fran used to say: "take what you can use and leave the rest."
