Let me speak up here:
I was offended to be asked that question in that matter. It did feel like like a "matter of fact" what did you do wrong. But I took a breath, assumed the asker was having a bad day, and as such didn't think about the tone. With that I was able to give a short to the point answer and move on. We are all human. And, really, nothing you guys say could ever be as bad as what DQ says to me.
Now if we could all just move on that would be splendid.
