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Introduction: I'm not alone
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<blockquote data-quote="mjhawks" data-source="post: 651033" data-attributes="member: 18841"><p>You and I think a lot a like. I have actually changed her therapists, 4 times. Demanded psychiatric evaluations with psychologists. And I have demanded that she be removed from my home. All of this has lead to where we are today. The in-home therapist she has now is awesome. Ex military and you can't pull the wool over her eyes. She actually has a doctorate in her field. The way it was explained to me is: There is a ladder system that these kids have to climb before they will be placed in residential. DQ is on the last rung before she is out with in-home therapy. If this doesn't change her behavior, which it isn't, the therapist will recommend that she be removed.</p><p></p><p>I started keeping a log of violent and threatening behavior in Jan. I learned that in my divorce. You can't just say "She was mean, or hurt me, or broke things." It's crazy, but they want dates and details.</p><p></p><p>And when she really gets going, I voice record her with my cell phone. I have let the therapist listen to it. My mom actually used some of that audio to prove our case to the rest of the family at Christmas, when they all thought we were just being mean to her, by being so restrictive.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="mjhawks, post: 651033, member: 18841"] You and I think a lot a like. I have actually changed her therapists, 4 times. Demanded psychiatric evaluations with psychologists. And I have demanded that she be removed from my home. All of this has lead to where we are today. The in-home therapist she has now is awesome. Ex military and you can't pull the wool over her eyes. She actually has a doctorate in her field. The way it was explained to me is: There is a ladder system that these kids have to climb before they will be placed in residential. DQ is on the last rung before she is out with in-home therapy. If this doesn't change her behavior, which it isn't, the therapist will recommend that she be removed. I started keeping a log of violent and threatening behavior in Jan. I learned that in my divorce. You can't just say "She was mean, or hurt me, or broke things." It's crazy, but they want dates and details. And when she really gets going, I voice record her with my cell phone. I have let the therapist listen to it. My mom actually used some of that audio to prove our case to the rest of the family at Christmas, when they all thought we were just being mean to her, by being so restrictive. [/QUOTE]
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