Oh Linda,
This must be terribly hard. I am just starting to deal with the fact that my B will never come home. Not to live, though we see quite a bit of him.
kt will have a hard time. It is always so tough to face the long term plans. Glad the tdocs are willing to be the ones to tell them, but you may also have to tell them so that they believe it is real.
I hope wm will not spiral down over the news. It can't be a real surprise, but it also won't be easy.
So tough on all of you, but seems like the right plan.
Hugs for your mommy heart and the rest of you too!
Susie