acceptance. That's what is on the agenda for the tweedles in the coming weeks. Acceptance for wm, that he will not be living in our home again. Acceptance for kt, that her brother is not coming home. We've been pushing the "family of different addresses" for 18 months now while tiptoeing around wm & kt that they cannot live together with-o totally deteriorating & becoming harmful to/for one another. While the concept of this sounds real good....acceptance is another idea. wm still believes he can come home; especially if "kt screws up & ends up in Residential Treatment Center (RTC)". kt, on the other hand, is alternating between wanting wm here & terrified that wm will come home. A team meeting is happening early in July to address this issue. Attachment tdocs & Integrated Listening Systems (ILS) tdocs are willing to take the hit; they are willing to tell the tweedles that it isn't "healthy or safe" for kt & wm to live together. (It's been the general consensus of the pros for the past 3 years anyway.) On one hand nothing changes other than the tweedles will know the long term plan; on the other, everything changes in the treatment direction & quite likely the tweedles emotional well being. And while I've known in my head this is the plan, in my heart it's devastating.