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<blockquote data-quote="tryingtobestrong" data-source="post: 742044" data-attributes="member: 22817"><p>I wanted to give an update and ask for opinions...</p><p>He called the following night and said that he emailed his counselor at IOP and said that he made a huge mistake by leaving IOP and could tell that night that he missed sharing and the rest of the meeting. She met with him and said she would give him options on Wednesday (yesterday) via email. He said he could go back into their IOP if he started at week 1. We told him we were extremely proud of him and that it was huge that he realized that he made a mistake and that it was actually helpful.</p><p>I haven't heard anything from him now though. I so want to text or call him and see what he has decided but my counselor said to let him be. This is his recovery and he needs to own it. I found him a counselor to talk to that is from the same state back east who moved to his state and I know he would like that but my counselor said not to share that information yet just to sit tight and see where he goes...</p><p>UGH... I get nervous that he will go back to the booze but he seems to not want to do that life. However, his depression and cutting is not getting better. He refuses to tell his counselor at IOP about his cutting for fear she will 302 him.</p><p>I know God is working and I need to be patient. He is making progress and I should follow my counselors advice but oh it is so hard esp. when the counselor I found seems like she could really help him.</p><p>My counselor said not to reach out to him... </p><p>I am going away today until Sunday to be with my daughter as she interviews for a grad school down south. I am a complete mess inside. I need to be there 100% for her but then I keep thinking about my son and if he has a meltdown, etc.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="tryingtobestrong, post: 742044, member: 22817"] I wanted to give an update and ask for opinions... He called the following night and said that he emailed his counselor at IOP and said that he made a huge mistake by leaving IOP and could tell that night that he missed sharing and the rest of the meeting. She met with him and said she would give him options on Wednesday (yesterday) via email. He said he could go back into their IOP if he started at week 1. We told him we were extremely proud of him and that it was huge that he realized that he made a mistake and that it was actually helpful. I haven't heard anything from him now though. I so want to text or call him and see what he has decided but my counselor said to let him be. This is his recovery and he needs to own it. I found him a counselor to talk to that is from the same state back east who moved to his state and I know he would like that but my counselor said not to share that information yet just to sit tight and see where he goes... UGH... I get nervous that he will go back to the booze but he seems to not want to do that life. However, his depression and cutting is not getting better. He refuses to tell his counselor at IOP about his cutting for fear she will 302 him. I know God is working and I need to be patient. He is making progress and I should follow my counselors advice but oh it is so hard esp. when the counselor I found seems like she could really help him. My counselor said not to reach out to him... I am going away today until Sunday to be with my daughter as she interviews for a grad school down south. I am a complete mess inside. I need to be there 100% for her but then I keep thinking about my son and if he has a meltdown, etc. [/QUOTE]
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