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<blockquote data-quote="LovingAbbey" data-source="post: 41410" data-attributes="member: 1369"><p>I am not happily married...I have been married to husband for almost 1 year and I can't remember the last time I was truly happy with him. Maybe the honeymoon?!?!? I think I got married to him too quickly. I had blinders on, I totally ignored all the red flags. I feel so stupid. I was alone for soooo long. At any rate here we are now. I am married to a man who is a self-centered, adolescent, with middle child syndrome, who is nothing that difficult child or I need anymore. He will flip out over the smallest thing. Any conversation is instantly an "arguement" if I express a different view from him. He started hitting difficult child, I had to put some great effort in getting that to stop, dcyf was called because of difficult child reporting it to school. Now he screams in her face when he loses it. And then I get involved, and we fight all night. And then the next day he comes home from work like nothing ever happened and he is wonderful with difficult child, And I get the "are you going to be miserable all day?". We are going to family therapy and it's not helping. The best he can do is not scream, hold it all inside, give evil looks and be passive aggressive. </p><p></p><p>I am completely emotionally detached from him at this point. If I let myself feel anything for him at all, it would be hate from the way he has treated my difficult child. I don't want him to touch me or come near me or even talk to me. And I am soooo very lonely and sad. I can't talk to him, and he is almost always here so I can't talk to anyone else. Every second he is at difficult child alone, I worry that he might be screaming at her again. I am so very tired and stressed and unhappy. And I just don't know what to do anymore. And I do somewhere love him. There isn't an us anymore, there isn't any piece of our marriage that is him and I, everything is about the way he is treating difficult child. Every second of everyday is about monitoring the way he is interacting with difficult child.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="LovingAbbey, post: 41410, member: 1369"] I am not happily married...I have been married to husband for almost 1 year and I can't remember the last time I was truly happy with him. Maybe the honeymoon?!?!? I think I got married to him too quickly. I had blinders on, I totally ignored all the red flags. I feel so stupid. I was alone for soooo long. At any rate here we are now. I am married to a man who is a self-centered, adolescent, with middle child syndrome, who is nothing that difficult child or I need anymore. He will flip out over the smallest thing. Any conversation is instantly an "arguement" if I express a different view from him. He started hitting difficult child, I had to put some great effort in getting that to stop, dcyf was called because of difficult child reporting it to school. Now he screams in her face when he loses it. And then I get involved, and we fight all night. And then the next day he comes home from work like nothing ever happened and he is wonderful with difficult child, And I get the "are you going to be miserable all day?". We are going to family therapy and it's not helping. The best he can do is not scream, hold it all inside, give evil looks and be passive aggressive. I am completely emotionally detached from him at this point. If I let myself feel anything for him at all, it would be hate from the way he has treated my difficult child. I don't want him to touch me or come near me or even talk to me. And I am soooo very lonely and sad. I can't talk to him, and he is almost always here so I can't talk to anyone else. Every second he is at difficult child alone, I worry that he might be screaming at her again. I am so very tired and stressed and unhappy. And I just don't know what to do anymore. And I do somewhere love him. There isn't an us anymore, there isn't any piece of our marriage that is him and I, everything is about the way he is treating difficult child. Every second of everyday is about monitoring the way he is interacting with difficult child. [/QUOTE]
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