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is anyone on to pm, i have a bit of a situation (please tell me how to pm)
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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 351901" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>This is so heartbreaking, isn't it? It also is the right thing to do. MAYBE if he was your only child you could consider helping him in other ways. They wouldn't be help though. REAL help will be whatever gets him off drugs/alcohol.</p><p></p><p>You have other children including a 13yo at home. You have NO real choice but to have difficult child out of your home. in my opinion anyway. It is so very very dangerous for your easy child if you have difficult child at home.</p><p></p><p>Why would he want to go to these other places where they will insist he follow rules and change? He doesn't want to do that. He still thinks that he can guilt you into taking him back or setting him up someplace. Please, PLEASE do not let him.</p><p></p><p>Is he still able to get alcohol and drugs while he has "no place to go"? If so, then he could have a place to go. He would have to choose to use whatever money he has for a place to stay. </p><p></p><p>This ONE question tells you that he is still CHOOSING, and still has some way to get money. Don't ask where. Don't assume he is jobless. That is NOT YOUR BUSINESS. </p><p></p><p>I know this is so hard. Just remember that your other children deserve a life where they are safe. This includes being safe from him. There is no telling what he might try to trade or sell for his next fix.</p><p></p><p>Hugs and prayers,</p><p></p><p>Susie</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 351901, member: 1233"] This is so heartbreaking, isn't it? It also is the right thing to do. MAYBE if he was your only child you could consider helping him in other ways. They wouldn't be help though. REAL help will be whatever gets him off drugs/alcohol. You have other children including a 13yo at home. You have NO real choice but to have difficult child out of your home. in my opinion anyway. It is so very very dangerous for your easy child if you have difficult child at home. Why would he want to go to these other places where they will insist he follow rules and change? He doesn't want to do that. He still thinks that he can guilt you into taking him back or setting him up someplace. Please, PLEASE do not let him. Is he still able to get alcohol and drugs while he has "no place to go"? If so, then he could have a place to go. He would have to choose to use whatever money he has for a place to stay. This ONE question tells you that he is still CHOOSING, and still has some way to get money. Don't ask where. Don't assume he is jobless. That is NOT YOUR BUSINESS. I know this is so hard. Just remember that your other children deserve a life where they are safe. This includes being safe from him. There is no telling what he might try to trade or sell for his next fix. Hugs and prayers, Susie [/QUOTE]
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