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<blockquote data-quote="Jena" data-source="post: 121783" data-attributes="member: 4514"><p>i see your point, yet i think i have to. i'm not very afraid of it. it may be good for me, just thinking about facing it makes me feel empowered to be honest.</p><p></p><p>he did a double hit on me that sob left when i was four, said he'd be back didn't. up till then brought me to bars when i was 2,3, and 4 on weekend visits. then after he took off sought me out again at eleven then off to fla. we went. parents got back together shockingly enough, they fought split up i stayed with him, he abused me, and moved his girlfriend in. i saved myself at 16 and got outta dodge bought own airline ticket and walked away from a very comfy life car, horse, etc. that he was bribing me with to stay and haven't seen him since.</p><p></p><p>so i think going there alone, being strong facing it and wrapping it up one way or another isa good thing. he shouldn't be able to go on in dillusion. maybe it'll sink in maybe it won't but at least he'll hear it from me.</p><p></p><p><img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p><p></p><p>i'm so so sorry for your daughter. she is giong to be an amazing woman some day with you behind her, these things happen and there are difficult to spot you almost need a magnifying glass. others don't always get that till your in it yourself. it's always those we feel we can trust too that are the abusers. scarey world we live in. my daughter's have been taught well older one via me how to protect herself should she ever need to she can drop a guy in 5 minutes......LOL....</p><p></p><p>all the best to her. one day at a time is great approach.</p><p></p><p>Jen :</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jena, post: 121783, member: 4514"] i see your point, yet i think i have to. i'm not very afraid of it. it may be good for me, just thinking about facing it makes me feel empowered to be honest. he did a double hit on me that sob left when i was four, said he'd be back didn't. up till then brought me to bars when i was 2,3, and 4 on weekend visits. then after he took off sought me out again at eleven then off to fla. we went. parents got back together shockingly enough, they fought split up i stayed with him, he abused me, and moved his girlfriend in. i saved myself at 16 and got outta dodge bought own airline ticket and walked away from a very comfy life car, horse, etc. that he was bribing me with to stay and haven't seen him since. so i think going there alone, being strong facing it and wrapping it up one way or another isa good thing. he shouldn't be able to go on in dillusion. maybe it'll sink in maybe it won't but at least he'll hear it from me. :) i'm so so sorry for your daughter. she is giong to be an amazing woman some day with you behind her, these things happen and there are difficult to spot you almost need a magnifying glass. others don't always get that till your in it yourself. it's always those we feel we can trust too that are the abusers. scarey world we live in. my daughter's have been taught well older one via me how to protect herself should she ever need to she can drop a guy in 5 minutes......LOL.... all the best to her. one day at a time is great approach. Jen : [/QUOTE]
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