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<blockquote data-quote="Jena" data-source="post: 123443" data-attributes="member: 4514"><p>ok as far as the denim thing goes was never into that anyway........LOL.......that was funny though.</p><p></p><p>mikey</p><p></p><p>yes i do agree one has to pick and choose their battles in life depending upon the "battle" in a sense facing our demons is just that to me. It's a battle of or rather for your freedom from the underlining problem that weighs you down our supposed "baggage" if you will.</p><p></p><p>Yet I have come to learn that there are some id' rather not approach, it would do more harm onto others than good so i best leave it alone. certain ones both parties would need to be willing and able. other's i believe are good to lessen the baggage come kinda full circle with it. emotional and verbal and physical/sexual abuse to me is a full circle issue. having the guts and determination at least for me to face that monster face to face and give it all you have, not hoping for a resolution or for an explanation or for an apology just to simply be heard by the proper party. that to me i believe would be finally releasing it. it's a wound that never healed just keep putting new bandaids on it year after year. i function differently because of it some of this is good i am a more alert and protective parent of my girls due to that fact.. although i have also learned you can't protect them all the time and there are times as with my situation where the innocent party that being hte other parent had absolutely no clue adn cannot be blamed for the incident.</p><p></p><p>it is a thought provoking questoin though, huh...??</p><p></p><p>see for me my trust was taken away years ago, and i don't think i ever regained it. i'd like it back it's mine and i should have it............LOL....((yes, me whining))</p><p></p><p>jen</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jena, post: 123443, member: 4514"] ok as far as the denim thing goes was never into that anyway........LOL.......that was funny though. mikey yes i do agree one has to pick and choose their battles in life depending upon the "battle" in a sense facing our demons is just that to me. It's a battle of or rather for your freedom from the underlining problem that weighs you down our supposed "baggage" if you will. Yet I have come to learn that there are some id' rather not approach, it would do more harm onto others than good so i best leave it alone. certain ones both parties would need to be willing and able. other's i believe are good to lessen the baggage come kinda full circle with it. emotional and verbal and physical/sexual abuse to me is a full circle issue. having the guts and determination at least for me to face that monster face to face and give it all you have, not hoping for a resolution or for an explanation or for an apology just to simply be heard by the proper party. that to me i believe would be finally releasing it. it's a wound that never healed just keep putting new bandaids on it year after year. i function differently because of it some of this is good i am a more alert and protective parent of my girls due to that fact.. although i have also learned you can't protect them all the time and there are times as with my situation where the innocent party that being hte other parent had absolutely no clue adn cannot be blamed for the incident. it is a thought provoking questoin though, huh...?? see for me my trust was taken away years ago, and i don't think i ever regained it. i'd like it back it's mine and i should have it............LOL....((yes, me whining)) jen [/QUOTE]
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