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is facing our demons a good thing?
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<blockquote data-quote="Jena" data-source="post: 123645" data-attributes="member: 4514"><p>wow that's hard and i'm sorry that you weren't able to face it. i will def. look for that book though.</p><p></p><p>it's hard to overcome that type of abuse it truly is. thing with me is that person keeps trying to contact periodically to mend the broken bridge sort of thing. tries telling me he's dying, etc. to get me to go. sends money on occassion to kids and i to feed his guilt etc. </p><p></p><p>so i try to escape him but cna't truly. clearly now's not the time but the time will come soon. </p><p></p><p>i'm trying to avoid the graveside thing too. he's getting older and always thought that would be the way standing there so if i can avoid taht i'd like to . just so many more important things for my own kids and myself right now i need to handle. </p><p></p><p>but like i said he's on my list......<img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p><p></p><p>thanks for sharing that, it's never an easy thing to share. it's taken me years to not be embarrassed by it and to not blame myself (he blamed me for it all hence the way i looked sort of thing). even looking at it differently can be and has been healthy.</p><p></p><p>the way i see it facing it or not and just realizing it's there whatever our method may be to heal ourselves is always a good thing, makes us better people hence better parents.</p><p></p><p>thanks for sharing that</p><p>Jen</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jena, post: 123645, member: 4514"] wow that's hard and i'm sorry that you weren't able to face it. i will def. look for that book though. it's hard to overcome that type of abuse it truly is. thing with me is that person keeps trying to contact periodically to mend the broken bridge sort of thing. tries telling me he's dying, etc. to get me to go. sends money on occassion to kids and i to feed his guilt etc. so i try to escape him but cna't truly. clearly now's not the time but the time will come soon. i'm trying to avoid the graveside thing too. he's getting older and always thought that would be the way standing there so if i can avoid taht i'd like to . just so many more important things for my own kids and myself right now i need to handle. but like i said he's on my list......:) thanks for sharing that, it's never an easy thing to share. it's taken me years to not be embarrassed by it and to not blame myself (he blamed me for it all hence the way i looked sort of thing). even looking at it differently can be and has been healthy. the way i see it facing it or not and just realizing it's there whatever our method may be to heal ourselves is always a good thing, makes us better people hence better parents. thanks for sharing that Jen [/QUOTE]
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