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<blockquote data-quote="Marcie Mac" data-source="post: 191943" data-attributes="member: 47"><p>No, I don't think your crazy, just in a disconnected pattern because of working a grave yard shift maybe. Doesn't your husband work at all or is he a house husband? I can't recall. </p><p> </p><p>Its easy to fall into a rut in a relationship - one gets so busy doing what they need to do and you don't realize stuff is bothering you until the little stuff that bothers or irritates starts piling up.</p><p> </p><p>Something needs to change, and you are going to have to be the one who initiates it (yeah, I know, one more thing thats fallen to YOU, but men seem in general to be a little "clueless" at times when it comes to figuring out there is a relationship problem and what should a do about it)</p><p> </p><p>I can only imagine how difficult it is when your pattern is being awake all night and everyone elses pattern is sleeping - 4 days off in a row isn't going to change that one easily. I have no ideas - I HATE just lying in bed awake- a few hours of sleep will do just fine for me and I am up and outta there, wandering around the house doing stuff or playing on the computer. And I really hate having a TV in the bedroom-SO if he can't sleep won't get up and go to another room, he turns the darn thing on and then "I" have to get up and go into another room cause once I am awake, I'm awake. If I don't I find myself grinding ing my teeth to the sounds of NASCAR racing and my irritable factor raises sharply. </p><p> </p><p>Maybe you need to set down some parameters and insist that you and husband spend some quality time together and reconnect. I always have a hard time with that as SO and myself have almost nothing in common when it comes to doing what he considers "fun" and I consider "fun" stuff together. </p><p> </p><p>Marcie</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Marcie Mac, post: 191943, member: 47"] No, I don't think your crazy, just in a disconnected pattern because of working a grave yard shift maybe. Doesn't your husband work at all or is he a house husband? I can't recall. Its easy to fall into a rut in a relationship - one gets so busy doing what they need to do and you don't realize stuff is bothering you until the little stuff that bothers or irritates starts piling up. Something needs to change, and you are going to have to be the one who initiates it (yeah, I know, one more thing thats fallen to YOU, but men seem in general to be a little "clueless" at times when it comes to figuring out there is a relationship problem and what should a do about it) I can only imagine how difficult it is when your pattern is being awake all night and everyone elses pattern is sleeping - 4 days off in a row isn't going to change that one easily. I have no ideas - I HATE just lying in bed awake- a few hours of sleep will do just fine for me and I am up and outta there, wandering around the house doing stuff or playing on the computer. And I really hate having a TV in the bedroom-SO if he can't sleep won't get up and go to another room, he turns the darn thing on and then "I" have to get up and go into another room cause once I am awake, I'm awake. If I don't I find myself grinding ing my teeth to the sounds of NASCAR racing and my irritable factor raises sharply. Maybe you need to set down some parameters and insist that you and husband spend some quality time together and reconnect. I always have a hard time with that as SO and myself have almost nothing in common when it comes to doing what he considers "fun" and I consider "fun" stuff together. Marcie [/QUOTE]
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