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<blockquote data-quote="hearts and roses" data-source="post: 393756" data-attributes="member: 2211"><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: darkslateblue">My difficult child once asked me if we could all just live in the same house (yes, me, H, easy child, difficult child and exh) so she would be able to see her dad more often. As if. He once slept in his van in our driveway because he didn't have enough money for a motel. It didn't even occur to me to ask if he wanted the couch. Of course, that was many moons ago. More recently, in May, he came up to visit while H and I were out of town and slept on the couch. </span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: darkslateblue">I used to hate it when difficult child would ask why exh and I couldn't just get married again....um, because there are too many reasons to list? She asked me why I was able to forgive my current H for his alcoholism but not exh for his cocained use. Oh, God, as if that were the only thing going on. </span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: darkslateblue">Hang in there Jen. You have no control over what your stupid exh says to difficult child, but you do have control over how to help difficult child get through it. Hugs~</span></span></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="hearts and roses, post: 393756, member: 2211"] [SIZE=3][COLOR=darkslateblue]My difficult child once asked me if we could all just live in the same house (yes, me, H, easy child, difficult child and exh) so she would be able to see her dad more often. As if. He once slept in his van in our driveway because he didn't have enough money for a motel. It didn't even occur to me to ask if he wanted the couch. Of course, that was many moons ago. More recently, in May, he came up to visit while H and I were out of town and slept on the couch. [/COLOR][/SIZE] [SIZE=3][COLOR=darkslateblue][/COLOR][/SIZE] [SIZE=3][COLOR=darkslateblue]I used to hate it when difficult child would ask why exh and I couldn't just get married again....um, because there are too many reasons to list? She asked me why I was able to forgive my current H for his alcoholism but not exh for his cocained use. Oh, God, as if that were the only thing going on. [/COLOR][/SIZE] [SIZE=3][COLOR=darkslateblue][/COLOR][/SIZE] [SIZE=3][COLOR=darkslateblue]Hang in there Jen. You have no control over what your stupid exh says to difficult child, but you do have control over how to help difficult child get through it. Hugs~[/COLOR][/SIZE] [/QUOTE]
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