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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 604179" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>I'm probably better at putting stuff like this on "disregard" than most people because I had to do it within my own family and happen to think of "family" is just people you are forced to be around at times.I value friends more than most of my family because I choose them. Family is just DNA or an accident of marriage.</p><p></p><p>I agree with everyone else and will add DO NOT agree to do ANYTHING to help your in-laws in the future. NOTHING. And if asked to do something, even put something on Facebook, decline. </p><p></p><p>I don't think you are sensitive at all. If it were me, I'd probably not even go and either tell my hub to say I'm sick or just let them think what they like. It gets old being a scapegoat. I like Hound Dog's attitude...lol. It's a lot like how I've chosen to be after plenty of long term abuse and being scapegoated.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 604179, member: 1550"] I'm probably better at putting stuff like this on "disregard" than most people because I had to do it within my own family and happen to think of "family" is just people you are forced to be around at times.I value friends more than most of my family because I choose them. Family is just DNA or an accident of marriage. I agree with everyone else and will add DO NOT agree to do ANYTHING to help your in-laws in the future. NOTHING. And if asked to do something, even put something on Facebook, decline. I don't think you are sensitive at all. If it were me, I'd probably not even go and either tell my hub to say I'm sick or just let them think what they like. It gets old being a scapegoat. I like Hound Dog's attitude...lol. It's a lot like how I've chosen to be after plenty of long term abuse and being scapegoated. [/QUOTE]
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